If women are still taking front row position to strategically grab the bouquet at weddings and figures show that marriage is in decline , the missing, reluctant actor in this puzzle could be the men.
Commitment from men boils down to finances and timing. Many men want to be established in their careers and financially comfortable before they take on the responsibility of a girlfriend, much less a wife and a family. And for many, notably Black Americans, that’s just not happening. They do not feel ready.
Who is to blame? Should society or the girlfriend play a role in improving their situation or is it entirely down to the man to be ready at the right time? When is the right time?
MOCCA Mums, if the trend worsens, where does this leave our girls when they are ready? What will be their options?